The Rebirth of Self-Love: Why the Venus Cazimi Is Not a Sign to Text Your Ex

On March 22nd, the planet of love, desire, and divine feminine energy aligns with the heart of the Sun in what astrologers call a cazimi—a moment so potent it feels like divine combustion. Venus isn’t just invisible in the sky during this moment—she is being re-forged in cosmic fire. Burned clean. Stripped of illusion. And ready to rise, not for the world—but for herself.

This isn’t light-and-fluffy Venus. This is alchemy.
This is transformation.
This is a complete rebirth of how you love, relate, and value yourself.

And no, that does not mean texting your ex.
This is not the time to return to a relationship that already showed you its limitations.

This is the time to return to you.

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What Is a Venus Cazimi—Really?

Cazimi is a rare celestial event where a planet sits in the heart of the Sun—so close it’s considered to be burning away all that is false, distorted, or outdated.

When it’s Venus?
The purification hits your relationships, self-worth, values, pleasure, and embodiment.

This is the midpoint of her 584-day cycle. Her underworld phase is ending. The descent is complete.
And now—you rise.

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This Is Persephone’s Moment—and Yours

So many people misunderstand the Persephone myth. They think she was taken. Powerless. Stuck. But that’s not the full story.

Persephone didn’t just descend into the underworld. She chose to stay.
She claimed her power as Queen of the Underworld—not a prisoner, not a victim, but a sovereign woman who understood the necessity of darkness for rebirth.

Her journey wasn’t about pleasing the world above or below. It was about wholeness.
And that kind of journey? It requires radical self-love and a total rejection of external validation.

Because let’s be real—most people don’t want you to rise.
They want you to stay digestible, desirable, obedient.
They want you to keep shrinking for love, keep settling for less, keep performing perfection.

But Persephone stopped performing.
And so must you.

This cazimi is your Persephone moment.
You’ve been through the underworld of your own patterns, doubts, and old relationships.
And now you’re being given a choice:

Will you rise differently?
Or will you go back to the version of you that only knew how to survive?

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Let Go of the Version of You That Settled

It’s time to bury the version of yourself that tolerated relationships based on:

• Approval instead of connection
• Chaos instead of safety
• Familiarity instead of fulfillment
• Being chosen instead of being seen

You don’t need “half-love.”
You don’t need “almost-respect.”
You don’t need to prove your worth just to be tolerated.

That version of you?
She was doing her best. But she was never meant to stay.

This cazimi is the funeral for your smallness—and the coronation of your truth.

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The Relationship With Yourself Is the One That Shapes Everything

I say this all the time, but today you need to hear it differently:
Your relationship with yourself is the most important one you will ever have.

If you don’t trust you, no one else will feel trustworthy.
If you don’t love you, you’ll keep trying to extract love from people who can’t even give it to themselves.
If you don’t feel whole, every relationship will feel like a desperate search for completion.

This Venus cazimi is not about who you can attract.
It’s about who you are when no one is watching.
It’s about claiming your crown—not because someone handed it to you, but because you finally remembered it was yours all along.

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So Why Do People Show Up During This Time?

It’s true—this transit brings people into your life who can shift everything. They often serve as mirrors, messengers, or catalysts.

But here’s the nuance:
Just because they’re important doesn’t mean they’re permanent.

Some people will open a door.
Some people will close one.
Some people will shake you awake.

None of that means you should run back to what broke you.
This isn’t about rekindling the past.
This is about recalibrating your future.

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How to Work With the Venus Cazimi

This isn’t just a vibe. You can literally find this in your birth chart. Here’s how:

1. Find the degree of the Venus cazimi:
   On March 22nd, the cazimi happens at 2° Aries.
2. Pull up your birth chart.
   (Use a free site like astro-charts.com)
3. Find where 2° Aries lands in your chart.
   The house it falls in shows you the area of life being restructured.
   The planets it aspects? That’s the deeper story.
4. Ask yourself:
   • What am I being asked to release in this area of life?
   • What does radical self-love look like here?
   • Where have I been giving my power away?

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Venus Cazimi Rebirth Ritual

If you want to seal this moment energetically, here’s a simple ritual:

🌹 Write a release letter
To the version of you that accepted less than she deserved. Thank her. Love her. And tell her it’s time to go.

🔥 Burn it safely
Let it transform through flame—just like Venus.

Speak this out loud:
“I no longer seek love to feel whole. I am whole. I reclaim my worth. I return to power. I choose me—fully, freely, and forever.”

Anchor your new truth
Do something that symbolizes your sovereignty. A bath. A dance. A journal entry. A crown. Let your body feel the shift.

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This Is Your Becoming

You don’t need to be softer.
You don’t need to be smaller.
You don’t need to earn love by dimming your fire.

This cazimi isn’t here to make you palatable.
It’s here to make you powerful.

So stop searching for the answers in someone else’s eyes.
You already have everything you need.

The death of external validation is the rebirth of self-trust.
The death of people-pleasing is the rebirth of divine magnetism.
The death of shrinking is the rebirth of your crown.

And you, Queen, were always meant to rise.

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Until next time, own your crown, always.